Quoting the Questions; Probing the Possibilities; Analysing the Answers.
The voice of a left leaning Aussie committed to liberal democratic socialism and pluralism throughout all facets of society.
I am particularly valiant when it comes to issues of rights, justice, and freedom from religion.
When We Rise
Pride risks nationalism
A preoccupation with the colours, emblems or subjective values of a nation instead of the beauty of the peoples and cultures that inhabit it, is pure nationalism and we should despise it before we learn to fear it.There's a fine line between pride and nationalism and I choose to stand as far away from that line as possible. To that end, I don't like:
- vehicles adorned with flags (as if we don't know what it looks like)
- tattoos of flags or other nationalist symbols (as if you need proof of where you were born)
- objections to the burning of flags as a valid form of protest
- anything that promotes bigotry or vilification of any kind
Australia's core beliefs
Apparently average Australians have seven core beliefs, at least according to our moral-driven upstanding Prime Minister.
In a speech at the launch of The Conservative in September 2005, Mr Howard claimed that the following were our common beliefs:
We live in a very successful nation.
Tell that to hundreds of thousands who live below the poverty line, and especially our indigenous peoples who are battling to survive
We do not have much to be ashamed of
True ... except for our poor record on indigenous health & welfare, our cow-tailing to the USA, and our arrogance towards the Kyoto protocol
Australia was well-regarded around th world
see above comments
Individuals should be given a fair go if down on their luck but, once helped, should not expect continued community support
a fair comment unless it is advocating only helping people once and then writing them off for the rest of their life
Traditional institutions like the family were central but people with alternative views should not be persecuted
well ... should they be faced with discrimination too? And whose definition of family are we using anyway?
People should be very tolerant, but also believe in unity when facing a common threat
Stuff tolerance ... how about respect, acceptance and understanding ... and what if the threat is John Howard or the Liberal Party?
Society should be classless where a person's worth was determined by personal character and hard work, and not religion, race or social background
Newsflash!! How about if a person's worth was equalto all others and there were no determining factors at all?
Clearly, Mr Howard is now the spiritual leader of 20 million Australians, or at the very least considers himself to be a modern-day Moses in direct communication with a burning Golden Wattle tree!
Answer my question Mr Birney
Not unexpectedly, the switchboard remained quite negative as the religious, the bigots, the ill-informed and the ignorant made all sorts of claims and accusations about the gay lobby and the best interests of the child.
I posed the following question to Matt Birney during his interview with harvey Deegan:
I am a divorced father of one child. I am also in a same-sex relationship with my partner of 7 years. In the event of some tragedy taking away the mother of my daughter, would Mr Birney and the Liberals object to my partner adopting my daughter or are they only objecting to my partner and I co-adopting a non-related child?
Mr Birney failed to directly answer the question, instead choosing to reiterate the argument that a child should have both a mother and a father. A tired argument that raises the question of whether it is better to be orphaned than to be raised without complementary gendered parents.
The crux of my question was that; in the hypothetical situation my daughter would logically be taken under my full time care. Why then, is it perfectly ok to have my partner in a co-parenting role but not be officially acknowledged as her legal guardian by way of adoption?
The fact is that current laws allow any person or two people, regardless of their relationship (eg: brother and sister, two friends, two grandmothers) or sexuality, the right to be considered for adoption. Even before the major law reforms of 2002 and before the ALP won government it was perfectly legal for single people (regardless of their sexuality) to adopt.
If it is SO important that a child has both a mother and a father then why won't the Liberals and their fellow moralisers campaign to remove the right of single people to adopt.
And while they are at it, why don't they try to legislate that widows and widowers must remarry if they are raising children.
It's not a perfect world, but in my absence I'd rather have my child loved by one good person, than remain alone as an orphan.
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Gympie backlash
07.09.2005
The Gympie Times
Story: Arthur Gorrie
COOLOOLA Shire Councillors are not the only ones to take offence at Cr Owen’s claims that homosexuals are less than human and have only the right to die.
Yesterday’s weekly council meeting formally received two protest letters on what their authors called Cr Owen’s “disturbing and hateful comments” and “grubby views not welcome in this day and age”.
Meagan Probert wrote from Brisbane’s Fortitude Valley to urge Mayor Mick Venardos to complain to the Anti-Discrimination Commission “on behalf of all the lesbian, gay and bisexual people within your local council area”.
Rosalie Morgan, of The Palms, said Cr Owen’s expressed opinions were “a disgrace, absolutely ignorant, dark and vile”.
Also unimpressed with the “no comment” attitude of some other councillors, Ms Morgan asked: “What right has this yokel to air his regressed views on anyone?
“Can you imagine the impression this tirade has done for Gympie’s image?
“How dare this person ignite such hate?
“We as ratepayers pay your wages and expect council to get on with the business of taking care of this region – not casting themselves as Moral Avengers, barging behind closed bedroom doors.
“Get over yourself councillor,” she wrote.
Ms Probert said Cr Owen’s comments “would be considered an act of vilification under the Anti-Discrimination Act 2003.
“His comments are very hurtful and would cause great distress to any gay person, their friends or family members.
“As the Mayor, I believe you have responsibility to take leadership to stamp out homophobia within your community.
“Another step would be to write to The Gympie Times condemning the words and actions of Ron Owen and assuring the gay people of the Cooloola Shire that they are valued and equal members of the community and that it is not acceptable that an elected representative on the council holds these views and expresses them publicly.
“I also call on you to ask for the resignation of Ron Owen in response to his unlawful vilification of gay and lesbian people and ask for him to stand down from his position as there is no room in this society for such hateful people.”
Anti-gay Gympie Goon
07.09.2005
The Gympie Times
Story: Arthur Gorrie
RON Owen was on his own at yesterday’s weekly council meeting, quoting ancient scripture to condemn homosexuality.
He referred to Leviticus, in the Old Testament, which rails against male homosexuality, commands the faithful to wash their hands before eating, instructs on how to make a proper sacrifice (including preparation of the burnt offering), bans all statues and recommends death by stoning for anyone who swears.
Silenced several times as he tried to expand on his views, Cr Owen also was blocked from reading a prayer in which it was claimed that legislators had “ridiculed the word of God and called it pluralism”.
Councillors backed away from a motion by Mayor Mick Venardos to refer Cr Owen’s remarks to the Queensland Anti-Discrimination Commission, but adopted one to disassociate council from the comments.
Cr Owen made headlines last month with his claims that gays are not human and have only the right to die.
Unrepentent yesterday, he said he had been telling the truth about his views and stood by them.
He claimed the support of ancient texts underlying Christianity, saying the same
religious laws had supported Judaism for 3500 years and applied within Islam.
Supported by Cr Bill McIntyre, Mayor Mick Venardos told the meeting that Cr Owen’s remarks were so offensive they should be referred to the Anti-Discrimination Commission.
Cr Owen responded: “If you don’t stand for something, you fall for everything.
“I presume I am at liberty to complain also,” he said.
“Do we throw away the Christian philosophy that has enlightened continents from tribalism to modern civilisation?
“Do we condemn the Torah, which has sustained the Jewish religion for 3500 years?
“Do we denounce the Koran which informs the Muslim faith? “If I am to be condemned for the crime of telling the truth then I am guilty,” he said.
Accusing Cr Owen of selective quoting, Cr Ian Petersen referred to an anonymous scholar who said: “The Devil himself can quote Scripture to his advantage.”
Calling Cr Owen’s opinions “jaundiced and intolerant,” he said: “This raving brings council into disrepute.
“I’m not about to sit here and be smote about the head by scripture,” he said.
Cr Wayne Sachs short-circuited the complaint motion, persuading several councillors that this was not a necessary part of council disassociating itself from Cr Owen’s views.
“We should move on. This does not have to go anywhere,” he said.
Cr Petersen said he took that point but thought the authors of two protest letters to the council probably would make complaints.
caveat civis
According to The Australian the party founder, Kurt Kennedy, believes that "all Australians should be living under Islamic law dictated by the Koran" and that we have nothing to fear because "The positive part of sharia law is (about) treating everybody fairly".
All well and good ... IF equality is the foundation stone. Unfortunately it may not be that simple - nor is it right and just!
Despite the spin, Islamic values are NOT exactly the same as those of any other religion, though they are more similar to Jewish or Christian beliefs than either of those religions would care to admit. As such, it is incomprehensible that a nation, especially Australia, should have to base its laws upon any one religion, even Christianity.
Islam, like any other religion (including Christianity) or political ideology, is subject to interpretation as well as the external forces that are invoked when trying to apply theory to a practical world. Communism is a great theory (true equality), but in practice it is unworkable and unjust. Capitalism is equally problematic.
Orwell's masterpiece, Animal Farm, suitably depicts how the forces of power, greed, discrimination and social politicisation of a community evolves from a genuine intent to provide equality, be it from a progressive or conservative perspective.
Evolutionary theory (the survival of the fittest) dictates that it is against our nature to believe anything other than that "some are more equal than others". If we add to these murky waters the widespread indoctrination that must naturally follow any implementation of a state-endorsed religion, then we will encounter a firestorm of fear and bigotry not unlike that seen in Nazi Germany, Apartheid South Africa, and the Crusades era in the Middle East.
Religion and politics are a chaotic mix, just as the suppression of religion in particular nations also breeds unnecessary suffering and malcontent. The separation of state and church is not only a cornerstone of democracy, it is the most fundamental of all human rights - the right to exist as an individual, with thoughts, actions and values of one's own choosing.
I don't deny the right of Kennedy and his supporters to establish an Islamic-based political party, and I have said as much previously on this blog here and here, but I cannot support the intent to establish any form of theocracy, whether it be Christian, Moslem or otherwise. I will also be the first one to stand up to oppose the possible election of any representative from such a group.
The Theocracy Alert - Early warning System is suitably on Orange status, the second highest rating.
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Gays can be bigots too!
I'll admit that I wouldn't blink much at some examples. but I continue to be alarmed at the blatant vilification that exists between particular groups within the gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans* & intersex community (or communities, as some people prefer).
It is not uncommon to see great division and unrest between different interest groups, often to the point of all out war. This often leads to the breakdown of important community infrastructure, culture and resources. it happened with the old Mardi Gras and it continues to be a source of rivalry and division between the numerous state and national lobby groups.
What has got my blood boiling this week is an article in the monthly "gay/lesbian" paper in Western Australia, OutinPerth. Click below to view a scanned copy of the article.

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Without debating the dubious research to which this article refers (I'll do that in another post very soon), it is fair to say that the author, Ralph Morrow, is guilty of vilification and bigotry to the extreme. Who needs the religious right when you have brothers-in-arms like this guy?
It is completely repugnant to any decent person, especially anyone who campaigns for human rights, equality and equity for diverse sexualities.
Red Cross Discriminates
In an article titled Challenge on gay blood-donor ban The Australian reveals that a Tasmanian man is taking legal action against the Red Cross. While the article is short on detail it is heartening for me that someone is finally making a stand.
During my time with Gay and Lesbian Equality WA (GALE) I raised this issue a handful of times but failed to rally any support for a political campaign. I even encountered several gay men daring to defend the policy!
If you want more detail on this issue check out the media release by the Tasmanian Gay and Lesbian Rights Group. There are additional links on that site with further reading about the blood ban and today's development.
Here is an unpublished letter I wrote to The West Australian in August 2003 after a report about a shortage at the local blood bank:
The shortage of blood comes as no surprise when archaic legislation and regulations prevent healthy potential donors from making such a gift.
Sexually active gay or bisexual men are barred from making a blood donation. It is irrelevant whether the man has been in a monogamous relationship for the last 20 years, has always practiced safer sex and is otherwise not in a high risk category.
On the other hand, a heterosexual man that frequently has several different sexual partners each week, partakes in orgies and never uses condoms is welcomed by the Red Cross with open arms. Outrageous!
I know which one is the greater risk to clean blood supply! I don't even have to emphasise the rigorous testing procedures that are used to detect and remove unsuitable blood product before it even gets approved for use.
This blatant discrimination against gay and bisexual men is based upon the unfounded fear that such people automatically carry HIV. It should be remembered that unsafe practices such as sharing needles and unprotected sex are the major cause of the spread of HIV, not the sexuality of a particular person.
Fortunately there are many caring, community-minded, healthy gay and bisexual men that choose to lie on the Red Cross forms when they regularly donate blood. Not that I am condoning this illegal act, but if they didn't care so much as to risk being charged, our national blood stocks would be at disastrous levels.
Some rules just don't follow logic. It is time for Government to pick up its act and start discriminating against the virus instead of the people!
All the best of luck to Michael Cain and the Tasmanian community. At the very least I hope you can rasie awareness of this important issue.
More on Virgin
ShannonSays is clear that the market has an image of Virgin and its staff, and that the company needs to meet those expectations. See Too old to work at Virgin Blue? Get over it.
And they are having some fun with the issue over at Campong Corner.
Personally, I'd like to see a 55 year old woman try claiming discrimination when she is denied an interview for a job as a topless barmaid at a misnamed "gentleman's club" :-)
It is all a bit silly really ... but then, so is this spat from feministing.com. (I'm not going to comment on the name of the site - but I'm laughing along with gay men all around the world!)
Ageism is old news!
There's no doubt that they are correct ... but can they prove it?
Circumstantial evidence, such as their claim that only one woman over the age of 35 was employed by Virgin between 2000 and 2002, might be the centre of their argument, but is it strong enough to sway the Tribunal?
I abhor discrimination of any kind, but let's face reality; we all have our prejudices - some we control better than others.
How many 35+ men and women are found waiting on tables at a restaurant or ripping your tickets at the cinema? Next time you go out for an evening of entertainment, or a weekend at a coastal resort, try counting the number of indigenous, old, overweight or aesthetically challenged that are in customer service roles.
The hospitality industry is built upon disrcrimination - they insist on portraying an image of youth and beauty. That is hard to do when you have grey hair or a beer gut!
Is it wrong? Of course it is! Can it be overcome? I doubt it. In fact, I dare say that the majority of Australians and international tourists wouldn't want it any other way - we like to be greeted by beautiful young staff. It is almost as if we feel younger just be their presence.
It is just an unfortunate symptom of our overly-fragile egotistical and commercial existence.
But, good luck to the eight ladies anyway - they'll need alll the help they can get.
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Live and let live
condemn churches for taking their stance on homosexuality within their
jurisdiction, whilst at the same time telling them to bugger off out
of our own private lives.
If a church honestly believes (and can convince its parishioners as
much) that homosexuality is an abomination, that priests should only
be male, that the end of the world is nigh, that tithing is good, that
pork is bad, that we should all be vegetarian, or that the Vatican is
not the whore of Babylon, then by all means let them do it.
Anyone willing to be part of that culture also willingly assents to
being discriminated. If individuals want change they have to change it
from within. It is none of our business. It has nothing to do with
wider society. They are free to teach and preach that the earth is
flat for all we should care.
On the flipside of the coin, the relevant religions should leave the
gentiles, heathens, pagans, infidels, atheists, agnostics, witches,
and liberal believers well enough alone. Let us live the life we
choose.
Interfering in religion is as much a form of vilification as religion
enforcing its moral standards on the rest of the community.
Who cares what the Anglican, or any other, church thinks? It is only
our own insecurities that they attempt to weaken by preaching our
wicked damnation. Why should we preach to them in the same tone? It
achieves nothing but makes them stronger, just as their vitriole makes
us stronger and more determined.
It is as pointless an exercise as debating the 'cause' of
homosexuality. While we waste resources on things we can't change it
leaves us with fewer resources for the things that we can change.
Family First and Democrats deal
As someone with questionable journalistic ability (otherwise said person would be able to apply what is commonly known as research) has objected to my condemnation of the Democrats snuggling into bed with the devil incarnate, I merely offer the test of time (a mere three weeks or so) to see whether we will regret such a deal when Family First end up winning seats because of the preference flows from the Democrats!
Anyone willing to bet against me? I certainly hope to be proved wrong.
I'm not fond of the idea of Brian or any political ally of human rights losing their seat, but if the worst is to happen, I'd prefer to have a Green, the ALP or even a bloody Liberal taking their place rather than a heterosexist, bible-wielding social terrorist, a la Family First!
Simply because the Democrats are GLBTIQ friendly does not give them automatic immunity over criticism of deals that will have a major effect on the future of human rights and social justice in Australia.
I clearly remember how one ALP member (and member of this community) took to abusing the Democrats (unfairly directed at me as a member of that party at the time) because of the deal that gave preferences to the Greens ahead of the ALP in the East Metropolitan Region, making it a very tight contest for Louise Pratt.
If anyone thinks that we should support candidates simply because of their sexuality they would be as guilty of discrimination as any heterosexist conservative. Policies matter, not personalities.
The ALP has slapped us in the face over marriage and the Democrats toyed with the fate of same-sex superannuation for political expediency before the protests from our community prevented them succumbing. This time, the backroom deals are done and our protests will now only be heard at the ballot box. The Greens may be our only hope of a party committed to its principles.
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Masquerade Parties
Masquerade parties - the trickery of branding political parties
Published in Online Opinion on 24 September 2004 {long post}
As an Australian voter I am concerned at, what appears to be, an elevation of church-based politics in Australia. A trend is evolving that should have us reflecting on the history of relations between church and state in the United Kingdom as well as the rise of hate-inspired nationalism in many countries.
It is not that I oppose political parties formed on a set of beliefs. In a democracy such as ours we should embrace the freedoms of political affiliation and free speech. With such freedoms it is easy for me to debate with the likes of Fred Nile's Christian Democratic Party (CDP) purely on the basis of their open policies. What you see is what you get with the CDP! All fair play in politics, right?
Not so anymore, I fear. The conservative field is broadening and Australia's fastest growing church is posturing to become a dominant force in politics. I'm not talking about the CDP, whose success is limited by the shackles of the Nile legacy, nor do I speak of the (lessening) Catholic entrenchment in the ALP or the debateable Anglican influence within the Liberals.
The Assemblies of God (AOG), under the guise of the Family First Party, are set to take the place of the depleted One Nation as the new right-wing of Australian politics. The AOG's love of tele-evangelism and the media spotlight, together with a fanatical desire for religious influence on government, combine to create a potential force of unmeasurable strength.
Unfortunately the Family First Party have the considerable advantage of presenting, at least on the surface, a "family orientated" Christian niceness that may attract the hearts and minds of many unwary swinging voters. But their blinkered view of putting family first may spark more debate than a red head in a fish and chip shop.
The reality is that Family First is not dissimilar to New Zealand's Destiny Party, famed for their recent black-shirt marches of intolerance and hate. The Destiny Party is born out of the Destiny Church and the links between Destiny and the Assemblies of God are clear cut.
Family First and the AOG are careful to provide some distance between themselves, unlike their New Zealand counterparts. Candidates continue to inform the media that they are not a church-based party, but the facts speak for themselves. Each of the Family First lead Senate candidates hold high ranking or influential positions in their respective churches, all within the AOG ministry.
While the current media focus is on the fight between the Greens and the Democrats for the balance of power little attention is being paid to the growing possibility of right wing conservative control by fanatical churches.
In Australia's secular society, it is paramount that no religion, not even Christianity, should have the opportunity to eat away at the separation of Church and State. This is a fundamental principle of democracy and the Westminster system of government.
By all means, any group has the right to establish a political presence and I will defend anyone's right to free speech and participation in the political process. What I object to, and what all democratically-minded Australians should be concerned about, is the disguise that many political parties, new and old, are adopting in order to attract our votes.
The days of the Democratic Labor Party (DLP) confusing the electorate may have passed, but we continue to be bombarded by names of parties that speak more about well-devised branding, rather than being descriptive of policy. If this election is to be fought and won on the concepts of truth and trust, the average punter will need degrees in psychology and marketing to adequately assess the myriad of options.
It is commonly accepted that the Liberals have not been 'liberal' for many decades. They should at least acknowledge, like their British counterparts, that they are in fact Conservatives. Of course Labor is not any different, having rid itself of the 'u' in labour when Adam was a boy and continuing to drive the working class out of its caucus.
It can be argued that even the Democrats have ignored their namesake for political expediency and short-term gain. This election will determine if they suffer the near fatal effects of member and voter disenchantment.
One Nation is as divided as the "one nation" it originally tried to divide! As for the Greens, the only critical argument seems to be the watermelon theory - green on the outside, red on the inside. And while there's no doubt that socialism always attracts parallels with communism, the Greens have done so little as a significant minor party, that we are left to wonder if the concepts of Greens and "political party" are a tautology.
On the surface the latest entry to the field, Family First, heralds a welcome return to the traditional family values of nurturing, unconditional love, strong morals and inclusion of extended family. Scratch beneath that pleasant exterior, however, and you will recognise a familiar tone of religious indoctrination, intolerance, disregard for some human rights, and specific exclusionary practices.
There is no room in a Family First Australia for anyone other than god-fearing, bible-toting, Christian-blessed families. Whilst the party does not make any direct policy references to controversial issues like individual human rights, read between the lines and some crucial issues of social justice are blatantly avoided.
For a start Family First are heterosexist. They are incapable of respecting an individual's right to love anyone they choose. Their narrow definition of family excludes the thousands of happy and functioning members of alternative families. In treating homosexuals, bisexuals and transfolk with such contempt they aim to set back human rights advances of the last two decades.
Imagine a set of policies that discriminated against children on the basis of how they were conceived. Natural conception would mean you were part of a family, artificial conception would relegate you to second class non-family status. Sounds ridiculous? Of course it is!
It doesn't matter how one becomes part of a family, be it natural or artificial, fostered or adopted, same sex or opposite sex relationships, married or unmarried. The fact that we exist as a family unit should be the only determination of our rights and our treatment as valuable members of society. It is basic human rights.
I'm sure not to win any friends by issuing a critique of a so-called Christian organisation, and I could go on about the myriad of smaller parties that are failing to meet standards of truth, trust and decency in a modern Australia, but time and space prevail.
By this stage, my good reader, you are probably wondering if the author has nothing but cynicism for the state of politics, and perhaps religion, in this country. Relax, there is a lighter side to all of this and a simple moral in my preaching.
This election, I urge caution. What you see, is not necessarily what you get. In a case of reality imitating art, this election you will find yourself voting for Miriam's affection or confronted by an inadequate gaydar on "Playing it Straight".
However, there's no cash jackpot waiting for you, just two simple guarantees regardless of how you vote and who forms government.
Firstly, at least half of you will be disappointed by the outcome of the election. Secondly, there will be no major change to economic, social or foreign policy. Labor and Liberal are almost indistinguishable on the "what". It is only the "how" that differentiates them.
In deciding your vote, I suggest treating the exercise like buying a used car from some dodgy guy in a tweed jacket and jeans. Kick the tyres, look under the bonnet and turn on the ignition. Take it for a test drive and see how it feels. Make certain that you don't get landed with a P76 that's been done up to look like a Rolls Royce!
Remember, this vehicle doesn't come with free auto club membership when it breaks down! Someday soon you could find yourself at the wrong end of a bigoted political party with the balance of power and your basic human rights severely diminished. If you think it won't happen in Australia, you are probably thinking the same as the Germans 70+ years ago and US citizens only 4 years ago.
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LesFest = anti-maleness
Women only spaces are important, just as safe spaces are also required for young people, transgender folk and a whole host of other groups. Even us guys need our own space sometime. I don't think anyone would dispute the need for organisations to provide such a service from time to time and many groups manage to do it regularly without having anti-male policies.
But the silent minority that support Lesfest go too far. They are separatists to the extreme by segregating, ostracising and discriminating against anyone associated with, or having a history of, maleness.
Lesfest frown on bisexual women, make life difficult for women with male children, despise transgender and transsexual folk, and at the end of the day appear no different to any other extremist group that has sought to create a "superior" community.
It has elements of apartheid and Nazism bundled together with a big dose of misandry. It simply turns my stomach.
Societal or Legislative Change?
THE FOLLOWING WAS FIRST PUBLISHED IN A EMAIL DISCUSSION FORUM AND PICKED UP BY VICTORIA'S "BNEWS" MAGAZINE
CHANGE in societal attitude vs CHANGE in legislation ... the question of the chicken or the egg?
by Collin Mullane
I could write a thesis on the principle of change. It is something we mortals are faced with repetitively and yet most of us cannot easily cope with its process. Many of us despise it, while at the same time desiring its benefits.
The change in attitude we seek from society needs to start with ourselves. Charity (and change) as they say, begins at home.
If the G&L community continues to discriminate, ignore or even ostracise bisexual, transgender, transsexual or intersex people then how is it possible for those groups to gain respect and visibility within the wider society.
I can cite many examples where the G&L community has done the above either accidentally or deliberately. It still does. And it isn't just non-G&L people that get the brunt of the attack. I am floored at the number of times I have heard gay men (some well respected community leaders too) say hateful or disrespectful things about lesbians and vice versa. A few years ago I may have been one of the guilty. Undoubtedly, this attitude is caused by ignorance or insecurity (of what I'm not sure).
The bickering and in-fighting that I have witnessed within the GLBTIQ community in the last 12 months, at least here in WA, is atrocious. The gay vs lesbian debates over the collapse of Mardi Gras (not to mention their anti-bisexual policies) were not pleasant either.
If there is one thing of which I am certain, it is that we do not (and will not) have a "community" until such time as we accept and completely adopt the three principles of diversity, respect and equality.
No exceptions. No Exclusions. No disclaimers.
Any argument against this philosophy is just bigotry in one form or another.
"Change will only occur when the pain of change is less than the pain of staying the same."
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Phobia vs ism
REGARDING THE LIMITATION OF USING THE TERM "HOMOPHOBIA"
Wouldn't it be just easier to talk about and use the terms "heterosexism"(1) and "heteronormativity"(2)? Of course this might take some education, but it is inclusive and more accurate terminology.
Most acts of discrimination, vilification and yobbish behaviour are not homophobia, biphobia or transphobia (all being the fear of 'x') but are resultant from attitudes of normalcy or even superiority from a heterosexual perspective.
It is the same attitudes that cause sexism, racism, nazism, anti-semitism etc. It is definitely an ism rather than a phobia. Even though there are a few clinical phobics out there, those people are more likely to shun us or campaign against us rather than attack.
Focussing on 'anti-gay', 'anti-lesbian' or even 'anti-bi' or 'anti-trans' behaviour is not appropriate because the specificity of these focal points always means that a fringe group is left out. Using the term homophobia to try and encompass all the above is also incorrect and reduces the visibility of key segments. What about the heterosexual transvestite or the straight fag hag?
The English language is poor by anyone's definition, but the best terms that I know (when explained correctly) are heterosexism and heteronormativity. They also put the problem fairly and squarely on the perpetrators, being (generally speaking) the hetero side of the fence, rather than focussing on the identity of the victims.
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As I state in one of my personal signature file, "End heterosexism - embrace diversity".
(1) HETEROSEXISM
The assumption that everyone is a heterosexual until it is otherwise known and that being heterosexual is the proper sexual orientation.
(2) HETERONORMATIVE
the prevailing culture that falsely views heterosexuality as ‘normal’ behaviour and alternative sexuality or gender identity as deviant. i.e. the nuclear family on the qtr acre block with a white picket fence, a dog, cat and a Holden Commodore is considered heteronormative. Anyone falling outside the "norms" characterised by a generalised view of heterosexual society would be considered non-heteronormative.
Here is a more detailed definition of the concept:
By heteronormativity we mean the institutions, structures of understanding, and practical orientations that make heterosexuality seem not only coherent--that is, organized as a sexuality--but also privileged.
Its coherence is always provisional, and its privilege can take several (sometimes contradictory) forms; unmarked, as the basic idiom of the personal and the social; or marked as a natural state; or projected as an ideal or moral accomplishment.
It consists less of norms that could be summarized as a body of doctrine than of a sense of rightness produced in contradictory manifestations--often unconscious, immanent to practice or to institutions. Contexts that have little visible relation to sex practice, such as life narrative and generational identity, can be heteronormative in this sense, while in other contexts forms of sex between men and women might not be heteronormative.
Heteronormativity is thus a concept distinct from heterosexuality. One of the most conspicuous differences is that it has no parallel, unlike heterosexuality, which organizes homosexuality as its opposite. Because homosexuality can never have the invisible, tacit, society-founding rightness that heterosexuality has, it would not be possible to speak of "homonormativity" in the same sense.
See Michael Warner, "fear of a Queer Planet," Social Text, no. 29 (1991): 3-17."
Source: University of Chicago
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Support and Caution
As we come to terms with the horrific acts of violence around the globe I want to share with all citizens of our small Earth the following words of support and caution, written shortly after 11 September 2001:
Empathise with the unspeakable pain and loss,
but refrain from words and acts of bigoted anger
Acknowledge the need for swift and certain justice,
but quell the voice of revenge and retribution
Honour the victims and provide solace to those they loved,
but protect all people from wrongful blame or premature judgement
And above all, no matter what the future holds,
gain strength from hope (or faith) and let peace prevail.
Labels and stereotypes
ADVICE GIVEN TO SOMEONE WHO WAS CONCERNED ABOUT NOT "FITTING IN" WITH THE LESBIAN COMMUNITY
Take the time to enjoy being a round peg in a square hole. It is well worth realising and appreciating that you are different and that you don't "fit" the norms that society imposes on us.
Remember also that being a round peg in a square hole also means that you have a bit more space around you and you won't feel so confined ;-) If we all fitted in perfectly there would be no room to move and express our own personality.
And don't think that the queer community is immune from 'norms', expectations, peer pressure and cliques. We are the worst for discriminating and vilifying those who aren't like 'us'.
Just try listing all the different labels our community has adopted ... lipstick lesbians, drag queens & kings, rice queens, potato queens, butch, leather, bears, disco bunnies, etc. Fortunately it is improving with time, but human nature will always resort to defining a person by their appearance and actions in order to put them in a 'box'.
Being outside of the mainstream society has a number of problems, but it also has a number of benefits. In time you will gain the confidence to be yourself, not the person society, your peers or family expect.
In the words of the great philosophers (Monty Python):
"We are all individuals!"
... "But I'm not!"
Same-sex "lifestyle choice"
Letter to the West, as it was published. Two sentences removed.
Yet again The West Australian (Care needed with gay reforms, 16/11) shows its inability to understand the subject matter. Being attracted to the same sex is no more a lifestyle or preference than being male or female.
As for the concern about a lower age of consent giving rise to predation of teenage boys, where is your concern about the currently legal act of predation of teenage girls by older men and women? Reducing the age of consent for homosexual boys to 18 is not equality unless you raise the bar for everyone to 18.
Human rights should never be left to the popular vote. The tyranny of the majority has, in the past, condoned slavery, genocide and discrimination against women.
Today we are a more humane society. Tomorrow we will take another step in that long road of inclusion and respect. I hope that The West Australian will soon follow that lead.
