Issues - every party has issues


[Re: a message by a parliamentary member of the Australian Labor Party in WA posted to the GALE-WA yahoo group]



A few points of view I think should be aired at this point.



Firstly, it isn't just the ALP's record that attracts criticism, but also the Democrats and the Greens. On a Federal level the ALP is justly scorned for its insistence on waiting for a whole-of-legislation approach when they form government while ignoring the piecemeal opportunities as they rise. Similarly we have seen the Democrats go weak at the negotiation table while the Greens have lacked the initiative to actually instigate reform. State campaigns and reforms are an entirely different species with fantastic work from all three parties.




Secondly, this site has never displayed a bias for one party over another. Even though at times one party may have been more highly represented in its membership of GALE, that may be more indicative of the differences in the way each party partakes in activism and lobbying, than in any political bias; social activism at the grass roots vs. legislative amendments from an upper house minor party vs. a holistic approach from the government.



Thirdly, Any perceived "anti-Labor" sentiment expressed in the community, along with similar discontent with the Greens or Democrats, is merely an outpouring of disappointment and feelings of betrayal. Nobody would ever be disappointed with the conservatives, because we do not have any positive expectations of them. However, when one of our allies lets us down in even the smallest way we naturally feel betrayed. Our community holds the view that the Libs can do no good and our allies can do no wrong. Neither is 100% accurate. If Australia's first out lesbian Liberal is elected in Queensland will we be turning to her for human rights reforms? I doubt we would waste our breath. Policies and action matter, not personalities.



Fourthly, "endless stunts by the Greens and Democrats" should be welcomed by this community because they offer media scrutiny of REAL issues that require REAL solutions. The ALP could just as easily have supported these "stunts" rather than demonising them as useless to the campaign for equality (which they clearly were not!). The cynics among us would believe that the ALP wants to wait until it is in government (even if that takes a further decade) so that it can try to claim the kudos of Federal reforms to itself, rather than having to support a series of minor party amendments that would have started the road to major reform much sooner. If the ALP are not in Government after October 9 it will be interesting to see how they go about delivering equal rights. Will they attempt a holistic omnibus bill from opposition, offer piecemeal legislation or ad hoc amendments as the Democrats do, or will they simply wait another three years to romance us at the next election? Only time will tell if the Federal ALP have as much guts as the WA ALP.



Fifthly, the commitment of some ALP parliamentarians (and those of some other parties) is not questioned. We should all support their work and hope for their continued success. However, the individuals do not make the party 100% friendly. Heterosexism and homophobia is evident in the ALP as much as it is evident in the Democrats and, although I have no experience of it, possibly the Greens. Such division is a fact of politics so none of the parties should be judged by the individuals and personalities. They must only be judged upon their policies and their actions. A lack of action is often as detrimental as an action against our cause.



The sixth point. Anyone who doesn't preference the ALP ahead of the Liberals is clearly not voting for our cause. But it is my opinion, shared by many others, that regardless of which major party is in government after October 9, the Australian Parliament will only be a more democratic institution with the addition of more minor parties and independents. By all means put the ALP ahead of the Libs and other conservatives, but also ensure that our minor party allies are placed ahead of the ALP to give them a fighting chance.



Finally, it could be argued that GALE has never been an effective lobby group. That it was actually been a handful of dedicated individuals over many decades that were the success behind the lobbying and that very little of the state reforms had much to do with GALE (the association, not the members). Certain individuals deserve the kudos, not GALE or any other single organisation. GALE has only ever had minor, sometimes divisive, support from the community and hardly ever had a full complement of committee and volunteers to do the necessary work. This is the same with any community organisation. While the 80/20 rule usually applies, in the GLBTIQ community it is fairer to assume a 95/5 rule applies equally to Pride, GLCS and other groups as much as it does for GALE. Apathy is our enemy, second only to complacency.



In conclusion, any criticism of our allies is not to be seen as throwing the baby out with the bathwater. We have (too) high expectations and are let down more times than exceeded. Such is the nature of politics and the road to equality. Just ask anyone involved in the lobbying for the rights of women, indigenous groups or refugees. The road is long and tough and criticism should be appreciated as an opportunity to learn and change. If you can't take the heat ... well you know the rest!






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Family First and Democrats deal


As someone with questionable journalistic ability (otherwise said person would be able to apply what is commonly known as research) has objected to my condemnation of the Democrats snuggling into bed with the devil incarnate, I merely offer the test of time (a mere three weeks or so) to see whether we will regret such a deal when Family First end up winning seats because of the preference flows from the Democrats!



Anyone willing to bet against me? I certainly hope to be proved wrong.




I'm not fond of the idea of Brian or any political ally of human rights losing their seat, but if the worst is to happen, I'd prefer to have a Green, the ALP or even a bloody Liberal taking their place rather than a heterosexist, bible-wielding social terrorist, a la Family First!



Simply because the Democrats are GLBTIQ friendly does not give them automatic immunity over criticism of deals that will have a major effect on the future of human rights and social justice in Australia.



I clearly remember how one ALP member (and member of this community) took to abusing the Democrats (unfairly directed at me as a member of that party at the time) because of the deal that gave preferences to the Greens ahead of the ALP in the East Metropolitan Region, making it a very tight contest for Louise Pratt.



If anyone thinks that we should support candidates simply because of their sexuality they would be as guilty of discrimination as any heterosexist conservative. Policies matter, not personalities.



The ALP has slapped us in the face over marriage and the Democrats toyed with the fate of same-sex superannuation for political expediency before the protests from our community prevented them succumbing. This time, the backroom deals are done and our protests will now only be heard at the ballot box. The Greens may be our only hope of a party committed to its principles.






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Family First-Australian Democrats deal


The Dems have done a preference deal with the right-wing, so called "Christian" Family First party in South Australia and perhaps elsewhere.



This party is extremely heterosexist and anti-GLBTIQ in every shape and form. They are the political arm of the Assemblies of God church and are set to become a powerful force in Australian politics ... far more than One Nation ever were.




They follow the same evangelical approach as New Zealand's Destiny Church and affiliated Destiny Party, famed for its recent black shirt rallies of hate. They are as bad, if not worse than Fred Nile and the Christian Democratic Party and as hateful as the USA's Fred Phelps!



The Democrats should be despised for this backward step, clearly a last ditch attempt to save themselves from oblivion. In my opinion they no longer deserve the votes of the GLBTIQ community in Australia.



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ex-democrat and now very glad of it!
my vote now goes to the Greens - the only party we can trust to uphold its principles



from the Greens:


Senator Brown also expressed concern and alarm that the Democrats have agreed on an exchange of preferences with the far-right Family First Party.


The Family First Party is an extremist, fundamentalist-Christian party that strongly opposes same sex marriage and abortion rights and challenges the separation of church and state.


"This bizarre Democrat preference allocation means that South Australia, in particular, is now a tussle between the Greens and Family First for the Senate," Senator Brown said.


"The Democrats have created a situation where Family First are now in serious consideration for a Senate seat."


From The Democrats


"On the same day the Greens and Labor do a deal to try and remove the only indigenous member of Federal Parliament in NSW, in South Australia they attack us for preferencing an Indigenous woman from a party that has done far more than the SA Green MP on issues like child abuse. The Greens hypocrisy is breathtaking.





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Masquerade Parties


Masquerade parties - the trickery of branding political parties

Published in Online Opinion on 24 September 2004 {long post}



As an Australian voter I am concerned at, what appears to be, an elevation of church-based politics in Australia. A trend is evolving that should have us reflecting on the history of relations between church and state in the United Kingdom as well as the rise of hate-inspired nationalism in many countries.



It is not that I oppose political parties formed on a set of beliefs. In a democracy such as ours we should embrace the freedoms of political affiliation and free speech. With such freedoms it is easy for me to debate with the likes of Fred Nile's Christian Democratic Party (CDP) purely on the basis of their open policies. What you see is what you get with the CDP! All fair play in politics, right?



Not so anymore, I fear. The conservative field is broadening and Australia's fastest growing church is posturing to become a dominant force in politics. I'm not talking about the CDP, whose success is limited by the shackles of the Nile legacy, nor do I speak of the (lessening) Catholic entrenchment in the ALP or the debateable Anglican influence within the Liberals.




The Assemblies of God (AOG), under the guise of the Family First Party, are set to take the place of the depleted One Nation as the new right-wing of Australian politics. The AOG's love of tele-evangelism and the media spotlight, together with a fanatical desire for religious influence on government, combine to create a potential force of unmeasurable strength.



Unfortunately the Family First Party have the considerable advantage of presenting, at least on the surface, a "family orientated" Christian niceness that may attract the hearts and minds of many unwary swinging voters. But their blinkered view of putting family first may spark more debate than a red head in a fish and chip shop.



The reality is that Family First is not dissimilar to New Zealand's Destiny Party, famed for their recent black-shirt marches of intolerance and hate. The Destiny Party is born out of the Destiny Church and the links between Destiny and the Assemblies of God are clear cut.



Family First and the AOG are careful to provide some distance between themselves, unlike their New Zealand counterparts. Candidates continue to inform the media that they are not a church-based party, but the facts speak for themselves. Each of the Family First lead Senate candidates hold high ranking or influential positions in their respective churches, all within the AOG ministry.



While the current media focus is on the fight between the Greens and the Democrats for the balance of power little attention is being paid to the growing possibility of right wing conservative control by fanatical churches.



In Australia's secular society, it is paramount that no religion, not even Christianity, should have the opportunity to eat away at the separation of Church and State. This is a fundamental principle of democracy and the Westminster system of government.



By all means, any group has the right to establish a political presence and I will defend anyone's right to free speech and participation in the political process. What I object to, and what all democratically-minded Australians should be concerned about, is the disguise that many political parties, new and old, are adopting in order to attract our votes.



The days of the Democratic Labor Party (DLP) confusing the electorate may have passed, but we continue to be bombarded by names of parties that speak more about well-devised branding, rather than being descriptive of policy. If this election is to be fought and won on the concepts of truth and trust, the average punter will need degrees in psychology and marketing to adequately assess the myriad of options.



It is commonly accepted that the Liberals have not been 'liberal' for many decades. They should at least acknowledge, like their British counterparts, that they are in fact Conservatives. Of course Labor is not any different, having rid itself of the 'u' in labour when Adam was a boy and continuing to drive the working class out of its caucus.



It can be argued that even the Democrats have ignored their namesake for political expediency and short-term gain. This election will determine if they suffer the near fatal effects of member and voter disenchantment.



One Nation is as divided as the "one nation" it originally tried to divide! As for the Greens, the only critical argument seems to be the watermelon theory - green on the outside, red on the inside. And while there's no doubt that socialism always attracts parallels with communism, the Greens have done so little as a significant minor party, that we are left to wonder if the concepts of Greens and "political party" are a tautology.



On the surface the latest entry to the field, Family First, heralds a welcome return to the traditional family values of nurturing, unconditional love, strong morals and inclusion of extended family. Scratch beneath that pleasant exterior, however, and you will recognise a familiar tone of religious indoctrination, intolerance, disregard for some human rights, and specific exclusionary practices.



There is no room in a Family First Australia for anyone other than god-fearing, bible-toting, Christian-blessed families. Whilst the party does not make any direct policy references to controversial issues like individual human rights, read between the lines and some crucial issues of social justice are blatantly avoided.



For a start Family First are heterosexist. They are incapable of respecting an individual's right to love anyone they choose. Their narrow definition of family excludes the thousands of happy and functioning members of alternative families. In treating homosexuals, bisexuals and transfolk with such contempt they aim to set back human rights advances of the last two decades.



Imagine a set of policies that discriminated against children on the basis of how they were conceived. Natural conception would mean you were part of a family, artificial conception would relegate you to second class non-family status. Sounds ridiculous? Of course it is!



It doesn't matter how one becomes part of a family, be it natural or artificial, fostered or adopted, same sex or opposite sex relationships, married or unmarried. The fact that we exist as a family unit should be the only determination of our rights and our treatment as valuable members of society. It is basic human rights.



I'm sure not to win any friends by issuing a critique of a so-called Christian organisation, and I could go on about the myriad of smaller parties that are failing to meet standards of truth, trust and decency in a modern Australia, but time and space prevail.



By this stage, my good reader, you are probably wondering if the author has nothing but cynicism for the state of politics, and perhaps religion, in this country. Relax, there is a lighter side to all of this and a simple moral in my preaching.



This election, I urge caution. What you see, is not necessarily what you get. In a case of reality imitating art, this election you will find yourself voting for Miriam's affection or confronted by an inadequate gaydar on "Playing it Straight".



However, there's no cash jackpot waiting for you, just two simple guarantees regardless of how you vote and who forms government.



Firstly, at least half of you will be disappointed by the outcome of the election. Secondly, there will be no major change to economic, social or foreign policy. Labor and Liberal are almost indistinguishable on the "what". It is only the "how" that differentiates them.



In deciding your vote, I suggest treating the exercise like buying a used car from some dodgy guy in a tweed jacket and jeans. Kick the tyres, look under the bonnet and turn on the ignition. Take it for a test drive and see how it feels. Make certain that you don't get landed with a P76 that's been done up to look like a Rolls Royce!



Remember, this vehicle doesn't come with free auto club membership when it breaks down! Someday soon you could find yourself at the wrong end of a bigoted political party with the balance of power and your basic human rights severely diminished. If you think it won't happen in Australia, you are probably thinking the same as the Germans 70+ years ago and US citizens only 4 years ago.






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Australian embassy bombing


Toll rises in car bomb blast outside Australian embassy.


09/09/2004. ABC News Online


A powerful explosion outside Australia's embassy in central Jakarta has reportedly killed six people, badly injured many more, and caused extensive damage to the embassy and nearby buildings. So massive was the explosion that there is no evidence apart from a water-filled crater of the vehicle that carried a bomb.


And the threat to national security is heightened once again leading into an election ...



Don't these terrorists realise that such acts around election time only serve to strengthen Australia's war-mongering and irresponsible foreign policies?



I'm trying NOT to think about conspiracies of the highest order.



*sigh*

More anti-democracy in USA


Florida's Madame Butterfly Flies Off with Ballots



This is outrageous!


I swear that the USA is devoid of political accountability and ethics. It should worry more about its own backyard than what it sees as its moral obligation to bring freedom to the rest of the world.



If Florida is any guide as to how the USA defines freedom and democracy, then the yanks can keep it. Too bad that Deputy Sheriff, John Howard wishes to take us down the same path of waltzing with democratic ideals.



Was it John Stuart Mill that rightly said "Democracy is the mistress of all, and the wife of none"?


Right Wing Christian Hate


Phelps To Erect Matthew Shepard Monument


by 365Gay.com Newscenter Staff: October 3, 2003 5:57 p.m. ET


(Casper, Wyoming) Anti-gay preacher Fred Phelps has announced intentions to erect a monument to Matthew Shepard the gay college student brutally murdered five years ago near Laramie.


But, the monument will be no memorial. Phelps says the monument would be 5 to 6 feet tall and made of marble or granite. It would bear a bronze plaque bearing the image of Shepard and have an inscription reading "MATTHEW SHEPARD, Entered Hell October 12, 1998, in Defiance of God's Warning: 'Thou shalt not lie with mankind as with womankind; it is abomination.' Leviticus 18:22."


The monument would be erected in downtown Casper, Shepard's home town.


If we can raise the funds I'm sure I can find someone with the appropriate skills to send Fred Phelps to hell!!



I'm also sure that if that monument is ever erected it will be defaced or demolished within days!


Australia - land of the Gay and gay!


First there was this report:



Australia and the USA have the highest proportion of gay men and women in the world, according to the world's largest online sex survey.


Then came this one today:



Australians are the world's top users of the illegal amphetamine ecstasy, a new United Nations report has revealed.



Hmmm ... I'm not drawing any links ;-)



Considering the (albeit waning) popularity of the "faaaabulousss" annual dance parties around the nation, and the oppressive nature of the Howard regime (we can hardly call it a government) is it any wonder that there are a few Aussies (straight and otherwise) that keenly enjoy a bit of regular escapism?



I've always maintained that we should get the world leaders together in a warehouse, among the laser lights and mirror balls, tell them to pop an E and then watch them go to town developing a peace accord! Of course, I just can't bear the thought of what might go in the back room between Howard and Bush!!



See you at Sleaze next week !! ;-)






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LesFest = anti-maleness

I am yet to meet a woman (lesbian, bisexual, trans, or str8) that supports the separatist policies of Lesfest.

Women only spaces are important, just as safe spaces are also required for young people, transgender folk and a whole host of other groups. Even us guys need our own space sometime. I don't think anyone would dispute the need for organisations to provide such a service from time to time and many groups manage to do it regularly without having anti-male policies.

But the silent minority that support Lesfest go too far. They are separatists to the extreme by segregating, ostracising and discriminating against anyone associated with, or having a history of, maleness.

Lesfest frown on bisexual women, make life difficult for women with male children, despise transgender and transsexual folk, and at the end of the day appear no different to any other extremist group that has sought to create a "superior" community.

It has elements of apartheid and Nazism bundled together with a big dose of misandry. It simply turns my stomach.

The Cause of Sexuality

We should be wary about trying to find a "cause" for sexuality, be that homo-, heter-, bi-, or even asexuality!



It is not relevant whether sexuality is genetic, randomly natural, or caused by environmental influences. We simply are!.. and therefore we should be respected and treated equally before the law.



There is a big push from some sectors to try and find the "gay gene". I sincerely hope they do not succeed as it would lead to genetic screening or gene therapy to overcome the "condition". Similarly if it was discovered that another theory, that sexuality was linked with levels of hormones during gestation, held true medical science would step in to provide a preventative measure.



It is a dangerous road to enter this debate, even to try and dispel such arguments is raising the visibility of this spectre.



In this case I suggest that abstinence is _most_ definitely the best policy.


Societal or Legislative Change?


THE FOLLOWING WAS FIRST PUBLISHED IN A EMAIL DISCUSSION FORUM AND PICKED UP BY VICTORIA'S "BNEWS" MAGAZINE



CHANGE in societal attitude vs CHANGE in legislation ... the question of the chicken or the egg?


by Collin Mullane



I could write a thesis on the principle of change. It is something we mortals are faced with repetitively and yet most of us cannot easily cope with its process. Many of us despise it, while at the same time desiring its benefits.




The change in attitude we seek from society needs to start with ourselves. Charity (and change) as they say, begins at home.



If the G&L community continues to discriminate, ignore or even ostracise bisexual, transgender, transsexual or intersex people then how is it possible for those groups to gain respect and visibility within the wider society.



I can cite many examples where the G&L community has done the above either accidentally or deliberately. It still does. And it isn't just non-G&L people that get the brunt of the attack. I am floored at the number of times I have heard gay men (some well respected community leaders too) say hateful or disrespectful things about lesbians and vice versa. A few years ago I may have been one of the guilty. Undoubtedly, this attitude is caused by ignorance or insecurity (of what I'm not sure).



The bickering and in-fighting that I have witnessed within the GLBTIQ community in the last 12 months, at least here in WA, is atrocious. The gay vs lesbian debates over the collapse of Mardi Gras (not to mention their anti-bisexual policies) were not pleasant either.



If there is one thing of which I am certain, it is that we do not (and will not) have a "community" until such time as we accept and completely adopt the three principles of diversity, respect and equality.



No exceptions. No Exclusions. No disclaimers.



Any argument against this philosophy is just bigotry in one form or another.



"Change will only occur when the pain of change is less than the pain of staying the same."






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Senator Bill Heffernan


I had an interesting day yesterday (Thursday).



Really ... I did!! ;-)




It started off with an SMS alerting me that my letter to the West had been
published (re Kirby & Heffernan). I hardly needed that warning, as a few
minutes later the telephone rang, Richard answered and then said it was for
me.



I'm not usually my most alert at 8am in the morning so it took a few seconds
for the "Is this the Collin Mullane that had a letter published in today's
West" to fully process so I just kind of blurted out "I think so". But it
took only a few nano seconds to be at full alert when the voice replied
"This is Bill Heffernan."



Oh!



I didn't know whether I was going to be verbally abused or just dragged into
an argument I didn't want to have at that time of the morning. I was
pleasantly relieved when it turned out to be neither.



Bill congratulated me on the letter and, without revealing the content of
what will remain a private conversation, I now have first hand knowledge of
a man that has come a long way in earning my respect.



It has been a valuable lesson for me about judging a person by a singular
action. There is more to Bill Heffernan than meets the eye, and I don't
doubt that he will prove his worth to this community in future years.



If the old adage that "the enemy of my enemy is my ally" is true, we may
just find this Senator supporting the GLBT cause some time in the future. I
hope so.



;-)






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Justice Michael Kirby


LETTER TO THE WEST AUSTRALIAN



Truly, a man of unique distinction is our Justice Michael Kirby (Accusing senator grasps hand of reconciliation, 12/8/03).



I am not too proud of the fact that I would have succumbed to a more acrimonious reaction if I were in his shoes, upon meeting Senator Heffernan. I am clearly the lesser man while Kirby deserves a living sainthood, or at least to be given the opportunity to be our next Governor-General (or first President?).



A more dignified and honourable person would be difficult to find in these times of core and non-core promises, lies, oversights, falsehoods, fear, intolerance and distrust.

Criticism, not anti-Semitism


LETTER TO THE WEST AUSTRALIAN (not published)



Reading the various reports recently about prominent ALP criticism of Israel raising the ire of Australian Jews has me concluding that some followers of Judaism (fortunately not the ones I know and respect) are a little too precious about their religious homeland. A land that is also of important significance to believers in Christianity and Islam.



Since when do Australian Anglicans get upset at criticism of UK policy? Do our Italian migrants or numerous Catholics claim bigotry when the world criticises the Vatican? Clearly, no, on both counts! But somehow Israel seeks special immunity to criticism, at least in the eyes of these few descendants of Abraham.



At the present time the world is vary wary of, if not prone to condemning, religious states. Why should Israel be any different? It is in breach of more UN resolutions than Afghanistan ever was under the Taliban. Israel deserves to be rebuked while it continues to be an aggressor-occupier.



I echo the words of Harry S. Truman in his recently discovered diary (West Australian, Sat 12/07/03) "Put an underdog on top ... and he goes haywire".


Glass - half full or half empty?

I was thinking about the glass half-full or half-empty paradigm. It occurred to me that perhaps it doesn't matter whether one sees it as half-full or half-empty. The key is in the choice we make in dealing with that situation.

Some people will feel the need to conserve and protect the status quo to minimise further loss. i.e. this is the glass we have, its our glass and regardless of whether the liquid is no longer at optimum temperature, has lost its fizz, gone stale or otherwise tastes awful it is still half a glass and its our glass!

I'm inclined to realise the limitations of a half-full (or half-empty) glass and take action to replenish the glass - i.e. change must occur by topping up the current glass or getting a new full glass to replace it - perhaps even a bigger glass, or one that is better designed for our purpose.

I have a favourite saying that I live by - "Change will only occur when the pain of change is less than than the pain of staying the same."

That is my philosophy lesson for today.

Cheers! *hic*

Identity, Behaviour and Characteristics

I believe that most of society confuses behaviour with identity or characteristics in a reckless and disrespectful manner. A person (regardless of sex, gender or sexuality) can display homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual or asexual behaviours and these can be separate or in conjunction with one or more other behaviours.

A person's (sexual) identity is something personal, but which can be influenced by peers and external influences.

A person's characteristics (eg flamboyancy, fashion, genes, language, mannerisms etc) can be congruent or juxtaposed with their sexual identity and/or their sexual behaviour - that is how we arrive at stereotypes. As such, society tends to make judgements and label individuals primarily based upon their characteristics (first impressions), secondly by their behaviours (if known) and rarely on their chosen identity.

That is a simplified argument, but it is how I look at the world. That is why I never assume a person's identity based upon their behaviour or characteristics, but only upon what they tell me. It is not for me to label someone bisexual or transgender or androgyne. If they want such a label I trust that they will offer it freely.

Of course the problem is that our society is so hung up on the gender binary that we are often forced to label something or someone male or female. We can just as easily get that wrong as we can other aspects of people's identity. What do you tell a 5 year old child who points to a feminine person at Fair Day and asks "Is that a boy or a girl?"

"Well, dear, that depends on .... "

The same goes for sexuality, I think. Who can be the judge of your own identity?

Australian Family Association

I went to one of their meetings once (in a business suit, removed my earring and placed my ring on my left hand to look as heterosexual as the next person!). The first thing that confronted me was that one wall had a giant wooden cross with some guy nailed to it ... I think it might have been the last poofter to have dared to try and infiltrate their inner sanctum.

The next thing that shocked me was 5 minutes of prayer asking for guidance and promoting love and peace etc ... then followed by a wave of intolerance and hate. The vilest of these people was Joan Torr.

Many people in WA would remember Joan as the elderly woman that was severely beaten and left for dead after a botched burglary in her home. After that she started a law and order campaign ("Joan Torr's Army") and was a candidate in a state election. She had a lot of support and I admired her courage. That is until the AFA meeting where I discovered her vile tongue and spiteful, ignorant mind!

I've never met anyone before, or since, that I would describe as being evil. I don't believe that people are inherently good or evil, those traits are learned behaviour. But she comes the closest to representing evil that I've ever encountered!

It was a very sad, but enlightening experience.

US Bastardises Democracy in Iraq


Dear Editor (Sydney Morning Herald),



Brokering the outcome of any election ("US tries limited elections in Mosul") simply undermines the foundations of democracy.




The USA might as well just appoint their preferred candidates and be done with it, rather than following through on this charade!



First they invade Iraq under the pretext of a pre-emptive strike because of unsubstantiated fears that illegal WMDs exist. Then they FORCE democracy upon a nation, just like Christianity was enforced during the Crusades.



Not content with having 'won liberty for Iraq', the USA changes the rules of democracy to ensure that one section of the community is able to dominate the interim government to "reduce ethnic tensions". And finally they deny ordinary citizens their basic right to vote by instead appointing an elite group of 200 'representatives' to take part in the ballot.



Can we expect that the US will also decide who the candidates should be?



It smacks of hypocrisy and complete disregard for the principles of democracy. I also can't help but notice the similarity with the structure of Meg Lees' new Australian Progressive Alliance.






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Artificial Conception


A RESPONSE TO THE QUESTION:

"Do you think that children conceived from donor sperm
have a harder time in general as they grow up?"



As a biological father, a parent and a potential sperm donor I have thought about this a fair bit over the last 12 - 15 months. I can only conclude that there needs to be firm decision between the relevant parties, ideally in the form of a legally binding contract so that each party understands the level of responsibility they may or may not have.



What should always be at the foremost in our minds is the best interests of the child.



It is impossible to predict the future or try to envisage how the child might feel about being the product of what might be seen to be a medical manufacturing process rather than an act of natural procreation between a loving heterosexual couple.



But this is where the argument against queer couples using artificial conception or adoption begins to fall apart.



I think we all agree that loving parents (regardless of biological or marital status) are more important to a child's happiness and welfare than any other single factor (including wealth, education, health etc). I cringe every time I hear a parent jokingly comment that their child was "a little mistake" because they forgot to use contraception or the pill didn't work. No child should ever be considered a mistake, even in jest.



So with that in mind, I would say it is irrelevant whether one chooses to use a known or unknown donor or what type of relationship is negotiated between the parties. What is important is that all parties are happy with the decision and abide by it. That decision is going to be different for each individual.



I would also recommend being honest with the child from an early age. Reinforce the fact that they are loved and how special it was that they were conceived in such a way. Remember that it takes a lot more thought, effort and money to use artificial conception than it is to get knocked up in the back of the Holden at the drive-ins ;-)



Be proud that your child is special and they will be proud to have such special mothers. They might also have a special male in their life that they may or may not call Dad that helped give them life, but always remember that to a child it is the parents that matter, not who supplied the genes.



Having the option to identify with the donor at some stage in their life is worthwhile, but they may never take up that opportunity if they are content with what they have in their real family. Even anonymous donors can be identified at a later stage if it is the wish of both parties.






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Conflict and Peace


A RESPONSE TO A PERSON WHO WAS CRITICAL OF CONFLICT AND HURT, YET WAS HYPOCRITICAL IN HER STANCE AS SHE OFTEN PROVOKED CONFLICT.



It reminds me of your introduction message when you promoted the TEAM mantra - Together Everyone Achieves More.




Of course, working together works best when everyone is equal and treats each other with equal respect. But in order to get equality (or freedom or truth or justice) one often needs to fight. And in any battle someone often gets hurt.



There are many words of wisdom in the world ... at least one for each cause (good and evil). Often the difficulty is not in living by the mantra (anyone can blindly follow), but in determining what truth lies beneath the inspiring anthem and pretty coloured flags.



"Truth, justice and the American way" is the mantra proudly voiced from beneath the star spangled banner of the USA flag and its well known anthem. But truth and justice are now seen to be rare privileges in that nation and they mean to bring this "American way" to the rest of the world without regard for the free will of others.



One of my favourite quotations is from Martin Luther King Jr, who said:



"True peace is not the absence of conflict, but the presence of justice."


War can be avoided, conflict cannot. If we all were to have the same beliefs, goals and ideals then the world would be a most boring place. With diversity we will always have conflict. What is important is ensuring that truth and justice prevail over lies, corruption and power.






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